Stop Asking Yourself Why And Start Asking Yourself How
Why am I suffering?Why am I broke?Why is my marriage broken?Why,why,why why?We really don't like to examine how we can overcome things.We spend more time asking why, because we want to understand it instead of seeking how we can over come it.We have got to learn to reverse the process in order for us to move forward.
Asking the question "why" enough times brings anxiety, depression, hopelesness and doubt.The deeper this becomes rooted in your thought process the more ineffective you will be.What we must do when situations happen is to first ask ourselves "how" can I resolve this. "How"can I turn this into a learning opportunity to make me stronger and wiser,"how" can from what I've learned be shared to help others?The "how" helps to seek answers the "why" allows us to wonder off in mutiple directions without no resolutions.
Let's examine both of these words first the word "WHY"- reason, cause , a baffling problem, for what cause, reason, or purpose. A antonym for the word "why" is also called "Enigma" which means,"something hard to understand or explain.While you are stressing over the "why", you could be coming up with ways to overcome your mindset to be open to resolutions for progress.
Now the word "how"-a question about manner or method,with what meaning : to what effect.We need to to take some time to examine "how" we arrived at the situations we find ourselves in,the factors that led us to make those decisions, and "how" we need to proceed to to correct it.We need to learn to sharpen our problem solving skills.We need to stop standing around and just waiting for things to fix themselves.
Remember it was your actions that got you in the situations you're in, and it will take others actions to come out of them,wise and sound ones. Don't become frustrated by failing.Use it as a motivator that you will not accept the situations as is.You will overcome the obstacles, and you will become a better man or woman for it.You will not settle and be complacent,you will soar high and you will be the best you know you can be.
You are great,talented,smart,resilent,witty and most of all a child of God~I want you right NOW to"Stop Asking Yourself Why And Start Asking Yourself How."
Asking the question "why" enough times brings anxiety, depression, hopelesness and doubt.The deeper this becomes rooted in your thought process the more ineffective you will be.What we must do when situations happen is to first ask ourselves "how" can I resolve this. "How"can I turn this into a learning opportunity to make me stronger and wiser,"how" can from what I've learned be shared to help others?The "how" helps to seek answers the "why" allows us to wonder off in mutiple directions without no resolutions.
Let's examine both of these words first the word "WHY"- reason, cause , a baffling problem, for what cause, reason, or purpose. A antonym for the word "why" is also called "Enigma" which means,"something hard to understand or explain.While you are stressing over the "why", you could be coming up with ways to overcome your mindset to be open to resolutions for progress.
Now the word "how"-a question about manner or method,with what meaning : to what effect.We need to to take some time to examine "how" we arrived at the situations we find ourselves in,the factors that led us to make those decisions, and "how" we need to proceed to to correct it.We need to learn to sharpen our problem solving skills.We need to stop standing around and just waiting for things to fix themselves.
Remember it was your actions that got you in the situations you're in, and it will take others actions to come out of them,wise and sound ones. Don't become frustrated by failing.Use it as a motivator that you will not accept the situations as is.You will overcome the obstacles, and you will become a better man or woman for it.You will not settle and be complacent,you will soar high and you will be the best you know you can be.
You are great,talented,smart,resilent,witty and most of all a child of God~I want you right NOW to"Stop Asking Yourself Why And Start Asking Yourself How."
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